Speedy and delicious? Key Tips to Enjoy Oral Pleasure

As we move through life, our relationship with pleasure and intimacy often transforms and deepens. Many women find that their ability to enjoy sex and express their desires becomes richer and fuller.

However, being stimulated with the tongue or mouth at the entrance to the vagina and vulva can be an experience that some avoid due to personal insecurities or less fluid communication with their partner. But remember: the tongue is not only a vital organ for speaking or tasting, but it can be an incredible instrument of pleasure!

Learning to communicate what you feel and want can transform intimacy into a richer and more rewarding experience.

One of the most rewarding aspects of this exploration can be cunnilingus, an intimate practice that not only provides pleasure, but also strengthens the connection with your partner. In this article, we will guide you on how to prepare to receive, enjoy and immerse yourself in the experience of cunnilingus, celebrating the beauty of your sexuality.

Just ask for it

Communication is the key to any successful relationship, especially in the area of ​​physical intimacy. Talking openly about your preferences and limits not only improves the experience, but also builds a bond of trust and respect with your partner. Be encouraged to discuss your favorite erogenous zones, what is comfortable for you, and what turns you on. This open communication will allow you to enjoy experiences more fully and explore new dimensions of pleasure together.

Tips to guide your partner:

Gentle Start : Start with a conversation about the importance of starting gently and gradually increasing the intensity. This allows for better adaptation and enjoyment. The clitoris is the organ with the most nerve endings, more than 8,000. Its stimulation causes pleasure that is not compared to that of any other area of ​​the body.

Direct feedback: During the event, do not hesitate to give direct feedback. For example, you can say things like "a little smoother" or "you can go a little faster." These clear cues help your partner understand your preferences in real time.

Using gestures or signals: If you find it uncomfortable to speak during the act, you can use hand gestures to indicate "slower" or "faster." This can be an effective and subtle way to communicate your needs.

Positive reaffirmation : When your partner does something you like, be sure to express it. Positive affirmations like "that feels amazing" or "I love it when you do that" not only guide your partner, but also foster a positive, connected atmosphere.

Prepare your V zone

Preparing for cunnilingus will not only make you feel good about yourself but will be an act of consideration towards your partner. Here are some steps to ensure you feel fresh, relaxed and ready for the experience:

Waxing or shaving : If you prefer a smooth feeling, consider waxing or shaving your genital area. This is completely optional and depends on your personal comfort and preferences. If you choose to do this, make sure you do it with enough time to avoid irritation.

Gentle washing : Use a mild, fragrance-free soap to wash the genital area before the encounter. Our Feminine Cleansing Foam with hyaluronic acid is an excellent ally to maintain the natural balance of the skin and the pH of the area. It is also formulated to avoid irritation that could distract you or be uncomfortable during the act. Be careful with incorporating vaginal douches, suppositories or talcum powder into your hygiene routine; none of these products are recommended for cleaning our V zone.

It is important to keep in mind that our vagina has a natural odor and that trying to kill it with deodorant, perfumes and other products can not only kill the protective bacteria, which should live naturally inside our vagina. Here we leave you a step by step of vaginal cleansing .

Relaxing environment: Preparing a cozy environment will allow them to get into the right mood. This could include soft music, dim lights, or even scented candles. A comfortable and welcoming environment can make a big difference in how you feel and how you enjoy the experience.

Hydration and breathing : Make sure you are well hydrated and practice some deep breathing techniques before you begin. Being hydrated and centered can help you stay relaxed and enjoy the sensations more fully.

know yourself

We never tire of giving this advice. Few women stop to know and explore their own genitals and even when we know our body well, there is always room for more discoveries.

Taking time to explore your anatomy or even learning together with your partner can make the cunnilingus experience more satisfying. Investigate and explore what movements, pressures and rhythms cause the greatest sensations of pleasure. This not only increases your enjoyment but also gives your partner clear guidance on how to love you the way you prefer.

Incorporating a toy in bed can help you understand which areas are your so-called “erogenous zones.” Tongue, fingers, toys, you can incorporate whatever you want at that moment.

If you are looking for a vibrator that allows you to experience correct stimulation of the clitoris, G point (and even the anal point), then the Zenzsual Triorgasmic is just what you need.

Our vibrator is designed to help you achieve more intense orgasms. In addition, it is made of a soft TPE-based gel-like material that allows delicate friction and can be controlled at different speeds thanks to the independence of the two vibration motors. It is important that you always remember to use a lubricant that is water-based and long-lasting, such as Zenzsual's Long-Lasting gel .

For a more enriching experience

It is crucial to enter every sexual experience, including cunnilingus, with an open mind and without fixed expectations. Each encounter is unique and can be influenced by numerous factors such as mood, physical health, and the dynamic with your partner at that moment. Accepting that each experience may vary will help you enjoy the moment more and learn from each interaction.

For those women who feel insecure about the way their vagina looks or smells, it is important to remember that these are natural, normal traits of the body. The perception that something is "ugly" or "dirty" can be challenged through education and emotional support.

As we always repeat, it is important that we understand that each vagina is unique and beautiful in its own way, all our shapes, sizes and smells vary considerably and are part of human diversity. Beauty is not a requirement to enjoy sexuality.

Receiving cunnilingus is a deeply personal and rewarding experience that can enrich your sexual and emotional life. By properly preparing and communicating openly with your partner, you can transform every encounter into a celebration of your body and your pleasure. Remember, sexual exploration is a personal journey and each experience is an opportunity to get to know yourself and your partner better.

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Hygiene tips before and after oral sex - Step To Health (as.com)

Eat it | Bites and heels | EL PAÍS (elpais.com)

Oral Sex: What It Is and What It Means (webmd.com)

8 basic rules of cunnilingus that every man should know (elconfidencial.com)