You've probably heard that romantic novels are the reason why we have very fanciful ideas about love. Well, pornography is responsible for us believing some very big lies about sex.
If we were guided by what we see on the screen, we would think that all orgasms are like fountains of liquid pleasure that splash everywhere. But the reality is different.
The famous female ejaculation or squirting is not so mysterious. There are women who achieve it naturally, and others who can learn to do it. So yes, there may be a chance that you too can squirt with pleasure during sex.
Before getting into the matter, let's clarify what exactly squirt is. Although there is still a lot of controversy about it, in a previous blog we explained that squirt appears to be a fluid that accumulates in the bladder and is released when a woman has an orgasm or at other times. This is thought to have to do with Skene's glands, two structures located near the exit of the urethra that can produce fluid by stimulating the G-spot.
Although “squirting” literally means “jet” in English, it is not necessarily a jet of liquid that shoots out, but rather a fluid that can vary in quantity, color and consistency. Sometimes it is so abundant that it wets the sheets, other times it is so discreet that you don't even notice. It may be clear or whitish, and may look like urine, but it is not.
For this reason, female ejaculation is often referred to as the expulsion of a small amount of liquid very similar to male ejaculation (of course, without sperm), and squirting is referred to as the expulsion of a jet of liquid through the genitals, when the urethra is stimulated through the vaginal walls.
It's no wonder squirting is so all the rage. Let's get to the data: one study revealed that almost 80 percent of women who achieved it reported that their sex life became more pleasurable.
The most important thing is that you keep in mind that squirting is a way to experience sexual pleasure, but it is not the only way or the best.
Squirting does not imply greater pleasure for women, and your orgasms are not inferior if you have not achieved it. Squirting can intensify the orgasm for some people, but for others it can be indifferent or even annoying. Everyone is different, and you don't have to feel bad about it.
If what you were hoping to read was the magic formula to achieve it, you won't find it anywhere. Yes, we can teach you ways in which you will enjoy much more pleasure, increasing your chances of achieving an excellent orgasm, whether with or without squirting. If you prepare and have all the conditions in place, maybe you could achieve it, but there are no guarantees.
The ability to achieve squirting is not 100% in our control. In fact, there are studies that suggest that it could even depend on the woman's genetics.
Learn to manage expectations, both with yourself and with your partner. The orgasm begins in your mind. The more you pursue it and the more anxious you become, the less it happens.
That said, it is also true that you have nothing to lose by trying. That's why we offer you a practical and professional guide to see if you can achieve it for the first time. And if you don't achieve it, we guarantee that you will reach a glorious orgasm.
1. Prepare the environment
And we don't just mean having time and space, but having a change of sheets ready. If you get it, you will surely need them.
2. Don't forget to drink water
It may not be the first thing that comes to mind, but being well hydrated can make a difference in your experience. Some experts claim that water helps improve sexual response, including orgasm and squirting. Although there are no studies to confirm it, it makes sense, don't you think?
Water is vital for health and well-being, and that is reflected in your sex life. Additionally, if you are dehydrated, you may have trouble reaching orgasm, feel pain during sex, or run out of energy. And that's not what you want, is it?
3. Don't rush your arousal.
Don't put pressure on yourself or demand too much from yourself. It is important that you let yourself go and feel the sensations.
It is also essential that you eliminate any distractions or worries that could interfere with your pleasure.
For most women, sex begins in the mind. That means everything from getting away from worries to tidying up the bedroom so that there is nothing that overwhelms you.
4. Start with the Clitoris
Start by stroking your clitoris, as it will help get you excited and fill your G-spot area with blood so it is ready for action.
Always start with gentle movements, since the clitoris is a very sensitive organ. Score points if you use our Feminine Lubricating Gel, as it will allow you to soften the area and relax to enjoy.
How to stimulate it varies between each woman. In general, it is best to try combinations of movements and vary according to what you like, whether circular caresses around the glans, gentle touches with your fingers in one direction, or even rubbing with the palm of your hand. .
5. Stimulate your G-spot with a lot of passion.
When you feel pleasure taking over you, insert your middle and ring fingers a few centimeters into the vagina and massage your G-spot, which is a rough and sensitive area located at the front of the vaginal wall.
Don't expect squirting to happen in an instant. You need to dedicate time and patience to it. See it as a marathon, not a race.
What you are stimulating is a sensitive tissue that surrounds the urethra. By stroking it, you modify the angle of the urethra with respect to the bladder, and thus facilitate the exit of that fluid. To increase your chances of squirting, relax your pelvic muscles while hitting the G-spot.
Pleasure is activated with the movement of the fingers. Intermittent touches are the most exciting, although some women find more pleasure when the G-spot is pressed rather than massaged. The recommendation is to try different methods until you find what you like best, avoiding excess force at first so as not to cause discomfort.
If your body asks for more, give it more.
6. Help yourself with the TRIOrgasmic
The G-spot is located about five centimeters from the entrance to the vagina and a little upward, so it is essential to have a toy with the perfect length and curvature.
If you are looking for a vibrator that allows you to experience correct stimulation of the clitoris, G point (and even the anal point), then the Zenzsual Triorgasmic is just what you need.
Our vibrator is designed to help you achieve the long-awaited squirt and enjoy more intense orgasms. In addition, it is made of a soft TPE-based gel-like material that allows delicate friction and can be controlled at different speeds thanks to the independence of the two vibration motors.
And if you combine it with our feminine Lubricating Gel , you will have the perfect scenario to achieve female ejaculation.
7. Ignore the urge to urinate and enjoy
If when you are about to climax you feel like going to the bathroom, don't get upset. It's not that you are going to urinate, but that you are experiencing the long-awaited female ejaculation.
If by chance you do leak a little urine, there is nothing wrong with that. Sex and masturbation are a fluid-filled adventure, so what does it matter if one more person joins the party?
And if you want to be calmer, you can go to the bathroom before starting.
The important thing is that you communicate with your partner about it, in case you are not alone. There are men who don't like the idea of their wife squirting all over the bed, others have no knowledge of the subject. Enjoyment as a couple is given by agreement.
8. Master the muscles of your intimate area.
A point as underestimated as it is effective: Yes, you need to train your pelvic muscles if you want to increase the chances of achieving female ejaculation.
When you feel that excitement or tension is building up, you will feel like you have to pee; That is the time to activate the pelvic floor muscles.
Do not contract them, but force them outwards, as if you wanted to expel urine. It takes practice, but it can be done.
To dominate your intimate area, nothing better than our Vagiyoga , a device that helps you regain the firmness of your pelvic muscles, prevent urine leaks and give a touch of fun to your sexual life.
You can visit our blog on how to exercise your pelvic floor for more information.
9. Let yourself be carried away by pleasure.
Don't worry about controlling your body or mind when you feel your orgasm approaching. On the contrary, breathe deeply and relax your muscles so you can live the experience to the fullest.
Some women notice that if they become rigid, they block both the orgasmic sensation and ejaculation. The best thing is to relax.
Many agree that pushing helps them loosen up and enjoy squirting. And this applies to any type of orgasm: it is best to relax your body, but at the same time tense and contract the pelvic floor muscles to enhance pleasure.
10. Don't get frustrated if you don't achieve it.
The most important thing is that you do not judge yourself if you do not achieve female ejaculation. If you don't succeed the first time, or even after several attempts, it simply means that your body has the instinct to prevent something from coming out of the urethra while you are enjoying yourself.
Just relax, feel the pleasure, and if it happens, it happens. If not, then you will have had an orgasm worth repeating.
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